Tarih boyunca, insanlar \u015fans\u0131n hayattaki rol\u00fcn\u00fc tart\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 bunun \u015fansl\u0131 az\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kay\u0131ran rastgele bir g\u00fc\u00e7 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rken, di\u011ferleri bunun sadece do\u011fru zamanda do\u011fru yerde olmak meselesi oldu\u011funu savunur. \u015eans kavram\u0131n\u0131 reddeden, s\u0131k\u0131 bir \u015f\u00fcpheci olan \u0130rlandal\u0131 babam, ba\u015far\u0131n\u0131n tek yolunun s\u0131k\u0131 \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n
Babam\u0131n \u015f\u00fcphecili\u011fine ra\u011fmen, her zaman ola\u011fan\u00fcst\u00fc \u015fans hikayelerine hayran kalm\u0131\u015f\u0131md\u0131r. K\u00f6pekbal\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n midelerinden mucizevi bir \u015fekilde kurtar\u0131lan kay\u0131p alyanslar ve uzun s\u00fcredir kay\u0131p olan karde\u015flerin inan\u0131lmaz bulu\u015fmalar\u0131na hayret etmi\u015fimdir. Babam bunlar\u0131 basit tesad\u00fcfler olarak g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f olsa da, bunlar\u0131n pozitif bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc ve \u015fans\u0131n sadece \u015fanstan ibaret olmayabilece\u011fini g\u00f6sterdi\u011fine inan\u0131yorum.<\/p>\n\n
Bir\u00e7ok insan, u\u011fur getirme umuduyla bat\u0131l inan\u00e7lara ve rit\u00fcellere ba\u015fvurur. Jim Palmer’\u0131n g\u00fcnl\u00fck krep kahvalt\u0131s\u0131ndan Wade Boggs’un tavuk yeme rutinine kadar, sporcular genellikle ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 bu g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte mant\u0131ks\u0131z uygulamalara ba\u011flarlar. Bu t\u00fcr rit\u00fcellerin etkinli\u011fini destekleyecek bilimsel bir kan\u0131t olmamas\u0131na ra\u011fmen, bir kontrol ve g\u00fcven duygusu sa\u011flayabilirler ve bu da nihayetinde performans\u0131 art\u0131rabilir.<\/p>\n\n
Babam\u0131n bile kat\u0131labilece\u011fine inand\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir \u015fans hikayesi bulmam y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131 ald\u0131. Bu, evde telefonla konu\u015furken ani bir kalp krizi ge\u00e7iren 53 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki arkada\u015f\u0131m Hamilton Loeb’in hikayesi. Mucizevi bir \u015fekilde, okuldan uzakla\u015ft\u0131r\u0131lm\u0131\u015f ve o s\u0131rada evde bulunan 17 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki o\u011flu Max, babas\u0131na CPR uygulad\u0131 ve ambulans gelene kadar onu hayatta tuttu.<\/p>\n\n
Doktorlar Hamilton’\u0131n kalbini stabilize etmeden \u00f6nce d\u00f6rt kez daha durdu ve hayatta kalma \u015fans\u0131 konusunda karamsard\u0131lar. Onu kurtarmak i\u00e7in son bir \u00e7abayla onu sanal bir derin dondurucuya yerle\u015ftirdiler ve v\u00fccut \u0131s\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 24 saat boyunca on dereceden fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcrd\u00fcler. Kalbe ve beyne verilen hasar\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlayan bu yenilik\u00e7i tedavi, bir bilgisayar\u0131 yeniden ba\u015flatmaya e\u015fde\u011fer olarak tan\u0131mland\u0131.<\/p>\n\n
Hamilton sonunda uyand\u0131\u011f\u0131nda, v\u00fccuduna girip \u00e7\u0131kan t\u00fcplerle, yata\u011f\u0131n\u0131n \u00fczerindeki televizyonda g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ilk \u015fey, birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce Tayland’\u0131 vuran y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 tsunaminin g\u00f6r\u00fcnt\u00fcleriydi. E\u011fer kalp krizi ge\u00e7irmeseydi, kendisi ve ailesinin felakette can vereceklerinin \u00fcrk\u00fct\u00fcc\u00fc bir fark\u0131ndal\u0131\u011f\u0131yd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n
“Sen \u015fansl\u0131 bir adams\u0131n,” dedi doktor ona.<\/p>\n\n
Hamilton’\u0131n \u00f6l\u00fcmc\u00fcl deneyimi hayat hakk\u0131ndaki bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 derinden de\u011fi\u015ftirdi. Duygusal olarak daha hassas hale geldi ve basit \u015feyleri daha \u00e7ok takdir etmeye ba\u015flad\u0131. \u015eans\u0131n sadece rastgele bir olay olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ayn\u0131 zamanda dayan\u0131kl\u0131l\u0131k, sebat ve sevdiklerinin deste\u011fiyle kazan\u0131labilecek bir \u015fey oldu\u011funu fark etti.<\/p>\n\n
Babam, Hamilton’\u0131n hikayesini takdir ederdi \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u015fans\u0131n her zaman \u015fans ya da ilahi m\u00fcdahale meselesi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6steriyor. Kendi eylemlerimiz, yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z se\u00e7imler ve kendimizi \u00e7evreledi\u011fimiz insanlarla kazan\u0131labilir. Minnettarl\u0131\u011f\u0131 benimseyerek, olumlu bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 koruyarak ve s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda y\u0131lmayarak, babam\u0131n \u015f\u00fcphecili\u011fi i\u00e7inde belki de hi\u00e7bir zaman tam olarak anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcrden bir \u015fans ya\u015fama \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131rabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n
Hamilton’\u0131n hikayesi ayr\u0131ca aile ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n hayat\u0131m\u0131zdaki paha bi\u00e7ilmez rol\u00fcn\u00fc de vurguluyor. Babas\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 kurtaran Max’in h\u0131zl\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi ve kahramanca eylemleriydi. \u0130yile\u015fme s\u00fcrecinde ona destek ve sevgi veren ailesi ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yd\u0131. Ger\u00e7ek \u015fans, bize yal\u0131t\u0131lm\u0131\u015f olarak gelen bir \u015fey de\u011fildir; \u00f6nemsedi\u011fimiz ki\u015filerle payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir \u015feydir.<\/p>\n\n
\u015eans\u0131n do\u011fas\u0131 karma\u015f\u0131k ve \u00e7ok y\u00f6nl\u00fcd\u00fcr. Rastgele bir olay, bat\u0131l inanc\u0131n bir \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc veya kendi eylemlerimizin ve se\u00e7imlerimizin bir sonucu olabilir. \u015eans\u0131m\u0131za katk\u0131da bulunan t\u00fcm fakt\u00f6rleri kontrol etmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmasa da, minnettarl\u0131\u011f\u0131, pozitifli\u011fi ve esnekli\u011fi benimseyen bir zihniyet geli\u015ftirebiliriz. Bunu yaparak, babam\u0131n \u015f\u00fcphecili\u011fi i\u00e7inde belki de hi\u00e7bir zaman tam olarak anlayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 t\u00fcrden bir \u015fans ya\u015fama \u015fans\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 art\u0131r\u0131r\u0131z.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
\u015eans\u0131n Ele Avu\u00e7lu Do\u011fas\u0131 \u015eans ve \u015e\u00fcphecilik Tarih boyunca, insanlar \u015fans\u0131n hayattaki rol\u00fcn\u00fc tart\u0131\u015fm\u0131\u015flard\u0131r. Baz\u0131lar\u0131 bunun \u015fansl\u0131 az\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 kay\u0131ran rastgele bir g\u00fc\u00e7 oldu\u011funa inan\u0131rken, di\u011ferleri bunun sadece do\u011fru zamanda do\u011fru…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[17144],"tags":[243,17140,16877,17141,17142,17143,17139,2382],"class_list":["post-12692","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-philosophy-of-life","tag-resilience","tag-fortune","tag-gratitude","tag-fate","tag-destiny","tag-perspective","tag-luck","tag-serendipity"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12692","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12692"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12692\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":12693,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12692\/revisions\/12693"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12692"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12692"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12692"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}