B\u00fcy\u00fcrken, b\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerimin evi sevgi, s\u0131cakl\u0131k ve sade zevklerin s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131yd\u0131. Onlar\u0131n tek torunu olarak, \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m ve her ziyaret de\u011ferli bir an\u0131yd\u0131. Pazar g\u00fcnleri bekleyen taze \u00e7\u00f6reklerden, bah\u00e7elerinden toplanm\u0131\u015f olgun domateslere kadar, evleri ko\u015fulsuz sevildi\u011fimi hissetti\u011fim bir limand\u0131.<\/p>\n\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerim sadece sevgi dolu bir ortam sa\u011flamakla kalmay\u0131p ayn\u0131 zamanda paha bi\u00e7ilmez bebek bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131 ve oyun arkada\u015flar\u0131 olarak da hizmet ettiler. Cumartesi geceleri, ak\u015fam yeme\u011fi ve yat\u0131ya kalmak i\u00e7in evlerine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fclmeyi d\u00f6rt g\u00f6zle beklerdim. Sars\u0131lmaz \u00f6zenleri ve ilgileri, kendimi d\u00fcnyan\u0131n en \u00f6zel k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck k\u0131z\u0131 gibi hissetmemi sa\u011flad\u0131 ve bir yeti\u015fkin olarak, ailemin bana o de\u011ferli anlar\u0131 ya\u015fatmak i\u00e7in yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 fedakarl\u0131klar\u0131 derinden takdir ediyorum.<\/p>\n\n
Dedem Poppop, Slovakya’dan Amerika Birle\u015fik Devletleri’ne gen\u00e7 ya\u015fta g\u00f6\u00e7 etti, babaannem Nanny ise k\u0131rsal Pensilvanya’da b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc. Her ikisi de sava\u015f ve B\u00fcy\u00fck Buhran’\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131\u015f, bu da hayatlar\u0131nda silinmez bir iz b\u0131rakm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Bana direncin, tutumlulu\u011fun ve minnettarl\u0131\u011f\u0131n \u00f6nemini \u00f6\u011frettiler ve hikayeleri, gaziler taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan fedakarl\u0131klara derin bir sayg\u0131 duymam\u0131 sa\u011flad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerim mali zorluklarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fsalar da, aile zaman\u0131na ve sade zevklere her zaman \u00f6ncelik verdiler. Babaannem Nanny’nin McDonald’s’tan eve getirdikleri “Extra Fancy” paketlerindeki ket\u00e7apla s\u00fcslenmi\u015f ev yap\u0131m\u0131 hamburgerleri, hala bug\u00fcn bile can\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7ekti\u011fi bir lezzetti. Dedem Poppop’un Hershey’s \u00e7ikolata \u015furubuyla kapl\u0131 vanilyal\u0131 dondurma tatl\u0131lar\u0131, aile yemeklerimizin m\u00fckemmel sonuydu. G\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fc\u015fte s\u0131radan olan bu yemekler, bizi bir araya getiren ve kal\u0131c\u0131 an\u0131lar yaratan de\u011ferli gelenekler haline geldi.<\/p>\n\n
\u00c7ocuklu\u011fuma bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131mda, b\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerimin en de\u011ferli an\u0131lar\u0131mdan baz\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n mimarlar\u0131 oldu\u011funu fark ediyorum. Bah\u00e7eleri sonsuz e\u011flence kaynaklar\u0131yd\u0131 ve 20 y\u0131ll\u0131k televizyonlar\u0131 say\u0131s\u0131z kahkaha ve ba\u011f kurma saati sa\u011flad\u0131. Fiziksel rahatl\u0131klar\u0131n \u00f6tesinde, bana derin bir aidiyet duygusu ve ko\u015fulsuz sevgi verdiler. Miraslar\u0131, beni hayat\u0131n basit \u015feylerine de\u011fer vermeye ve kendi ailem i\u00e7in her zaman s\u0131cak ve misafirperver bir ev yaratmaya \u00e7abalamaya te\u015fvik etmeye devam ediyor.<\/p>\n\n
B\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerimle ge\u00e7irilen zaman paha bi\u00e7ilemezdi ve bana \u00f6\u011frettikleri dersler bug\u00fcn kim oldu\u011fumu \u015fekillendirdi. Bana ailenin \u00f6nemini, sevginin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc ve insan ruhunun direncini \u00f6\u011frettiler. Evleri, kendimi g\u00fcvende, sevilmi\u015f ve ko\u015fulsuz desteklenmi\u015f hissetti\u011fim bir s\u0131\u011f\u0131nakt\u0131. Yeti\u015fkinli\u011fin karma\u015f\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131nda yol al\u0131rken, b\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerimin bana verdi\u011fi sade zevkler ve kal\u0131c\u0131 an\u0131lar i\u00e7in sonsuza dek minnettar\u0131m.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
B\u00fcy\u00fck Ebeveynler: Sade Zevkler ve Kal\u0131c\u0131 An\u0131lar B\u00fcy\u00fck Ebeveynlerle B\u00fcy\u00fcmek: Bir Sevgi ve Huzur Liman\u0131 B\u00fcy\u00fcrken, b\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynlerimin evi sevgi, s\u0131cakl\u0131k ve sade zevklerin s\u0131\u011f\u0131na\u011f\u0131yd\u0131. Onlar\u0131n tek torunu olarak, \u015f\u0131mart\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131m…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":24989,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[10922],"tags":[4334,17306,1726,21429,524,17508,21430,4045,4335,21431],"class_list":["post-16156","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-family-and-relationships","tag-family","tag-veterans","tag-traditions","tag-grandparents","tag-great-depression","tag-home-cooking","tag-memories","tag-war","tag-love","tag-simple-pleasures"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16156","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=16156"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16156\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":24990,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/16156\/revisions\/24990"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/24989"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=16156"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=16156"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=16156"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}