{"id":18445,"date":"2022-10-26T20:06:03","date_gmt":"2022-10-26T20:06:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/?p=18445"},"modified":"2022-10-26T20:06:03","modified_gmt":"2022-10-26T20:06:03","slug":"the-heart-balm-racket-how-women-were-blamed-for-broken-engagements","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/life\/relationships\/the-heart-balm-racket-how-women-were-blamed-for-broken-engagements\/","title":{"rendered":"Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131: Ni\u015fan Bozulmalar\u0131nda Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n Su\u00e7lanmas\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"

Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131: Kad\u0131nlar Ni\u015fan Bozulmalar\u0131ndan Nas\u0131l Sorumlu Tutuldu<\/h2>\n\n

S\u00f6zle\u015fmeye Ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k Yasas\u0131<\/h2>\n\n

1900’lerin ba\u015f\u0131nda, “s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k” olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lan bir yasa, ni\u015fanlar\u0131n\u0131 bozan eski ni\u015fanl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 dava etmelerine olanak sa\u011fl\u0131yordu. Bu yasa, bir ni\u015fan\u0131n ba\u011flay\u0131c\u0131 bir s\u00f6zle\u015fme oldu\u011fu ve di\u011fer ki\u015finin r\u0131zas\u0131 olmadan bozulmas\u0131n\u0131n yasal bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k oldu\u011fu fikrine dayan\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n

Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/h2>\n\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k nedeniyle erkekleri dava etmelerine ili\u015fkin sansasyonel hikayeler man\u015fetlere ta\u015f\u0131nd\u0131k\u00e7a, halk, vicdans\u0131z kad\u0131nlar\u0131n yasay\u0131 zengin erkekleri \u015fantaj yapmak i\u00e7in kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131na giderek daha fazla ikna oldu. Bu kad\u0131nlar “alt\u0131n avc\u0131lar\u0131”, “d\u00fczenbazlar” ve “macerac\u0131lar” olarak etiketlendi. Medya, bu paranoyay\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fcklemede \u00f6nemli bir rol oynad\u0131 ve kad\u0131nlar\u0131 manip\u00fclatif, erkekleri ise saf kurbanlar olarak g\u00f6sterdi.<\/p>\n\n

Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n De\u011fi\u015fen Rol\u00fc<\/h2>\n\n

O zamanlar evlilik, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n finansal g\u00fcvenlik ve sosyal stat\u00fc kazanmas\u0131n\u0131n bir yolu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyordu. Ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n rolleri de\u011fi\u015fmeye ve e\u011fitim ve istihdam i\u00e7in daha fazla f\u0131rsat elde etmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca, bozulmu\u015f bir ni\u015fan\u0131n bir kad\u0131n\u0131n hayat\u0131n\u0131 mahvedebilece\u011fi fikri daha az inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131 hale geldi.<\/p>\n\n

Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Yasas\u0131n\u0131n Kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131<\/h2>\n\n

1930’larda giderek artan say\u0131da insan s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k yasas\u0131n\u0131n adaletini sorgulamaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Ele\u015ftirmenler, bunun modas\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015f oldu\u011funu ve kad\u0131nlara kendi kendilerine bakamayacaklar\u0131 varsay\u0131larak ayr\u0131mc\u0131l\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 savundu. 1935’te Roberta West Nicholson adl\u0131 gen\u00e7 bir eyalet yasama \u00fcyesi, Indiana’da yasay\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in bir yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131 sundu. Di\u011fer eyaletler h\u0131zla bu \u00f6rne\u011fi takip etti ve 1945’te 16 eyalet s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k yasas\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131rd\u0131.<\/p>\n\n

Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n Miras\u0131<\/h2>\n\n

Kalp a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131na y\u00f6nelik itiraz sadece erkekleri \u015fantamdan korumakla ilgili de\u011fildi. Ayn\u0131 zamanda kad\u0131nlara ve evlili\u011fe y\u00f6nelik tutumlar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmekle de ilgiliydi. Yasan\u0131n kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n kendi se\u00e7imlerini yapabildiklerinin ve onlar\u0131 korumak i\u00e7in yasaya ihtiya\u00e7 duymad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131n giderek daha fazla kabul edildi\u011fini yans\u0131t\u0131yordu.<\/p>\n\n

Medyan\u0131n Etkisi<\/h2>\n\n

Medya, hem kalp a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 k\u00f6r\u00fcklemede hem de sona erdirmede \u00f6nemli bir rol oynad\u0131. Kad\u0131nlar\u0131n s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k nedeniyle erkekleri dava etmelerine ili\u015fkin sansasyonel hikayeler, korku ve g\u00fcvensizlik ortam\u0131 yaratt\u0131. Bununla birlikte, kamuoyu de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flad\u0131k\u00e7a, medya da yasan\u0131n adaletsizli\u011fine dikkat \u00e7ekme ve kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 savunma konusunda bir rol oynad\u0131.<\/p>\n\n

Evlili\u011fin De\u011fi\u015fen Do\u011fas\u0131<\/h2>\n\n

Kalp a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131, evlili\u011fin de\u011fi\u015fen do\u011fas\u0131na da \u0131\u015f\u0131k tuttu. 1900’lerin ba\u015f\u0131nda evlilik, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n finansal g\u00fcvenlik ve sosyal stat\u00fc kazanmas\u0131n\u0131n bir yolu olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fcyordu. Ancak kad\u0131nlar\u0131n rolleri de\u011fi\u015fmeye ba\u015flay\u0131nca evlilik ekonomik zorunluluktan ziyade arkada\u015fl\u0131k ve sevgiyle ilgili hale geldi. Bu tutum de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi, s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k yasas\u0131n\u0131n gerilemesine katk\u0131da bulundu, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc finansal hususlara dayanmayan bir ni\u015fan\u0131 bozdu\u011fu i\u00e7in birini dava etmek daha az kabul edilebilir hale geldi.<\/p>\n\n

Roberta West Nicholson: Kad\u0131n Haklar\u0131n\u0131n Savunucusu<\/h2>\n\n

Roberta West Nicholson, kalp a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortadan kald\u0131rma m\u00fccadelesinde \u00f6nc\u00fc bir isimdi. 1935’te Indiana’da yasay\u0131 y\u00fcr\u00fcrl\u00fckten kald\u0131rmak i\u00e7in ilk yasa tasar\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 sundu ve \u00e7abalar\u0131, yasan\u0131n \u00e7o\u011fu eyalette nihai olarak kald\u0131r\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7t\u0131. Nicholson’\u0131n kad\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131n savunucusu olarak miras\u0131, bug\u00fcn aktivistlere ilham vermeye devam ediyor.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Kalp A\u011fr\u0131s\u0131 Doland\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131: Kad\u0131nlar Ni\u015fan Bozulmalar\u0131ndan Nas\u0131l Sorumlu Tutuldu S\u00f6zle\u015fmeye Ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k Yasas\u0131 1900’lerin ba\u015f\u0131nda, “s\u00f6zle\u015fmeye ayk\u0131r\u0131l\u0131k” olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lan bir yasa, ni\u015fanlar\u0131n\u0131 bozan eski ni\u015fanl\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 dava etmelerine olanak sa\u011fl\u0131yordu. Bu yasa,…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1803],"tags":[19311,6023,2260,3633,169,24121,19309],"class_list":["post-18445","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-relationships","tag-love-and-law","tag-gender-roles","tag-marriage","tag-legal-history","tag-womens-history","tag-heart-balm-racket","tag-breach-of-promise"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18445","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=18445"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18445\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":18446,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/18445\/revisions\/18446"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=18445"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=18445"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.lifescienceart.com\/tr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=18445"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}